Almost a decade ago, my tryst with coaching started.
I was a hotshot corporate executive. I was part of a business transformation exercise and was assigned a coach.
My first reaction was “Why would I need a coach? I know everything.” Besides my coach was not from my industry so “what would the person tell me which I didn’t know?”
I was a complete skeptic to the process when I went into the first interaction. Over the course of the year, I was humbled by the person and the process. My coach brought out so many insights about me and my performance that it opened new doors for me.
I became a complete convert to coaching and was trained in Breakthrough Coaching.
Over the years, the coaching industry has matured, but understandably there are still doubts on how an ideal coach should be.
In the absence of a clear idea, individuals going through the coaching process could lose out on the transformational magic of coaching. Organizations would lose out on time and money.
What I am sharing with you today is my experience, in both the roles, as a Coach and a Coachee (a person who is being coached).
Brian Tracy is Chairman and CEO of Brian Tracy International, a company specializing in the training and development of individuals and organizations.
Brian’s goal is to help you achieve your personal and business goals faster and easier than you ever imagined.
Brian Tracy has consulted for more than 1,000 companies and addressed more than 5,000,000 people in 5,000 talks and seminars throughout the US, Canada, and 70 other countries worldwide. As a Keynote speaker and seminar leader, he addresses more than 250,000 people each year.
He has studied, researched, written and spoken for 30 years in the fields of economics, history, business, philosophy and psychology. He is the top selling author of over 70 books that have been translated into dozens of languages.
He has written and produced more than 300 audio and video learning programs, including the worldwide, best-selling Psychology of Achievement, which has been translated into more than 28 languages.
He speaks to corporate and public audiences on the subjects of Personal and Professional Development, including the executives and staff of many of America’s largest corporations. His exciting talks and seminars on Leadership, Selling, Self-Esteem, Goals, Strategy, Creativity and Success Psychology bring about immediate changes and long-term results.
What does Leadership mean to you?
“Leadership is the ability to get extraordinary achievement from ordinary people.”
It is difficult to distil the impact of a person who has written 70 books. His words have always had an impact. The one closest to me is “Luck is predictable. If you want to be lucky, take more chances, show up more often”. His book “Eat that Frog” and its philosophy of getting your most important work done first thing in the morning has been my personal productivity mantra for years.
For starters, it throws all my routines out of the window and then the noise just keeps increasing and the…
Enough with the rant.
This time was different.
A few weeks back, I was invited to a typical Indian wedding. And I was excited.
I was excited given it was my best friend’s sons wedding.
And it was for three days only. Only?
Well, a lavish wedding nowadays is spread over five days and can be more.
So this is where the slim starts.
I had misgivings on how raucous it would be. But, turned out it was great fun.
Lots of laddoos, assorted ceremonies and dance later, as I was nursing my tired bones, I realized that not only was it the most organized wedding I had experienced, it was one of the most organized events I had seen.
1938. Karoly Takacs was writhing in pain. The 1936 world class pistol shooter had just shot his right hand. His right hand by which he would hold his pistol.
The pain of the extinguished hopes was more than the physical pain. Everyone looking at him said “A great career which could have been has just ended” Or did it?
By 1939 i.e. in a year’s time, he won the National Shooting Championship. Olympics was cancelled in 1940 and 1944 due to World War 2. Finally in 1948 Olympics, after waiting for nine years, he wold the Gold medal and also in the next Helsinki Olympics in 1952.
He won all these championships by his LEFT Hand.
Back in 1938, He could have easily moaned in grief and led a victim’s life which everyone would have shown sympathy to. Instead he rose above his physical and mental challenges and achieved the impossible.
You may say “I am not an Olympic Athlete. How is this relevant to me?”
Let me ask you: “Do You want today to be better than yesterday?” If yes, then this is for you.
Because if you focus on the very core aspects of your life then your today is going to be better than yesterday.
Most days, your day starts with tumbling out of the bed to shut off the alarm, a quick shower, then, coffee while running out of the door. A long ride in the traffic to the office, a long to-do list is made with your head in the hand, a day which goes by in a blur and before you know it, you are back in the bed staring at the ceiling, wondering “One more day gone!”
How is it that some people seem to do so much within one day while you are just about ticking the 6th item on the task list?
If you study the habits of the successful people, you can unlock the keys for a joyful and highly productive day. Want to know more? Read on.
Do you know that by the time you reach 18 you have heard NO around 10,000 times?
No wonder we get used to hearing NO. What is worse for business is we get used to saying NO to others. NO to new ideas, new initiatives, new ways of working. The common refrain “We don’t do it this way here”If it ain’t broke, Don’t fix it.”
It requires an outsider like Starbucks to show what Nestle should have done a long time back.
This post is about how key decision makers in your organization may be operating and why it may stop you from unleashing the best.
Quite often people act from The Power of saying NO and Responsibility of saying YES mode. Let me show how:
Managers often will say NO to a subordinate’s plan for a new style or new idea or an innovative way of doing things. This comes from the feeling that “I have the power to say NO” and I am going to use it liberally.
However, when it comes to saying yes, low performing managers think “I’ll have to explain why this works. Tomorrow something goes wrong I will be blamed” so they feel a certain heaviness of saying YES.
Over time, the organization becomes “safe” and “follows procedures” rather than taking risks to deliver more value to the customer.
Now contrast this with what I am saying:
What if Leaders felt the power of saying YES. They should feel that they have taken one more step in adding value to customers. I have taken one more step in beating the competition. I have taken one more step in making my team think and deliver innovation.
And If I say NO, then I have the responsibility of not making any of the above happen. Not only am I crushing someone’s dream, but I am also reducing the company’s future growth potential.
Now if someone has this doubt “Hey, does that mean I allow every wild dreamy idea out there?” The answer to it is: judge it whether it adds value to the customer, beats competition or increases the innovation and growth in the company, If Yes, Feel the Power of YES.
As a leader, are you building this culture in your team and organization?
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As a startup founder or CEO, you need to run a lean operation which can get the promised growth fast. You have secured your round of funding; you want to get out there and make the most of the plans that you have outlined and secured an approval. But, we have also seen how yesteryear unicorns are going through markdowns or downrounds.
You want to make sure that your marketing is geared for delivering the growth, develops and executes programs which run fast and have the most impact.
Find below the ways by which you can keep your marketing team and programs, lean and efficient.
My boss used to love asking questions. On every campaign, we used to design; he would ask ten questions. Once replied, they would lead to 10 more questions and so on. One day, I decided that I would start it as a pilot project, and we will keep answering his questions. After two months, he asked, “By the way, what happened to that X campaign?” I replied “well, we started as a pilot project and got some good learnings from it and now in a better position to answer your concerns” He paused for a while and then said “you did the right thing. Let’s go national”.
The market and the customer are the best ways to understand whether something works or not.
We can have endless boardroom discussions, but it has no comparison to the rich learnings in the market.