Thanos: I am inevitableYeah, how did that turn out for ya? What happens when you desire something? You visualize it, maybe make some soundsand you feel somewhere it is inevitableIt’s going to happen Whether you want a new toy (cars, phones, infinity stones) or a start a new project (innovation, fad diet, new religion) or… Continue reading what happens when you desire something?
Don’t know how to start?
Try This How can I try things and do something small enough, but that could have a big impact, that is easily solvable if it doesn’t work? Chip Conley on the Tim ferriss show As a child, when something did not work out, you tried another approach and another till it worked,… Continue reading Don’t know how to start?
Should you become emotionless?
I am sad, I am angryI am experiencing sadness and angerAnger and sadness are passing through meWhat is the difference between these statements?Do they matter?We live inside a box called IdentityWhen we experience anger, we quickly say “I am angry”Now what was initially an emotion or feeling has become an identity. It is now powered… Continue reading Should you become emotionless?
Are your conversations building or dismantling relationships?
Let’s have a conversation.I will speak and you will listen“That’s called a monologue, not conversation”Whatever! I will speak and you will listen intentlyand you will agree with whatever I say and not disagreeelse I will unfriend you“That’s a transaction, not conversation”Don’t throw Pop psychology at meI will speak for a long timeand then you will like it… Continue reading Are your conversations building or dismantling relationships?
What are your dreams for yourself?
A better future or a specific goal?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀I have always been accused of living in a “dream world”that the world is very different from what I live in my worldthat I am not opportunisticthat I am not realistic⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀Yup, that’s all me!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀I live in a dream worldbecause I believein the human potentialbecause I believe inthe nature of… Continue reading What are your dreams for yourself?
Do you want to reduce drama in your life?
“I love Drama especially in fights”No one says thisAnd yet, most participateAmongst people we knowThere is always someone we say is a Drama QueenReality we all have the capability and inclination to bring “drama” into our relationshipsRemember all the times you had a tough conversation which either resulted in yelling, shouting and hurling insults or… Continue reading Do you want to reduce drama in your life?
You lost your motivation. Now what?
All my life I worked hard, made sacrifices, burnt the midnight oil, lost my hair and my social life in pursuit of only one goal:To eat a tub of tender coconut ice creamHere I am staring into the tub, staring into the emptiness of the tub as the last spoon is goneNow what?I see only… Continue reading You lost your motivation. Now what?
You had a fight, now What?
Who’s to Blame?NO ONEIn a relationship, whether business or romanticIt’s natural to feel angry or sad or a mix of bothAfter all, if you really care for the person and/or the relationship, you will want happy, productive, meaningful,fulfilling interactionsWhen a fight happens, it soon becomes “the” fightWe want to ascribe blame and cause to the… Continue reading You had a fight, now What?
Are you feeling desperate and alone?
You are not alone!If you are feeling desperate, anxious or plain fearful of what’s going to happen in the future to you, then you are not aloneIf things are not happening the way you want and whatever you have built is crumbling apart, then you are not aloneIf you had planned for things to happen… Continue reading Are you feeling desperate and alone?
Do you believe in Destiny?
Like everything is decided and you just have to go through the motions and life will anyway do their bitHow does that make you feel?Maybe you believe in free will, that you have a choice and a mind which can choose what you should doEg even if destiny has brought in front of you vanilla… Continue reading Do you believe in Destiny?