Should you become emotionless?

I am sad, I am angry⁣I am experiencing sadness and anger⁣Anger and sadness are passing through me⁣⁣What is the difference between these statements?⁣Do they matter?⁣⁣We live inside a box called Identity⁣⁣When we experience anger, we quickly say “I am angry”⁣⁣Now what was initially ⁣an emotion or feeling ⁣has become an identity. ⁣⁣It is now powered… Continue reading Should you become emotionless?

Do you prefer to speak or listen?

“Sorry, what was the question?” Given a chance, we would rather start a monologue than.. “That’s not me, I prefer to listen it’s just I know what you are going to say nextThat I don’t listen but I do. I was right, wasn’t I?” You are right.Instead of listening to others perspective, we have already… Continue reading Do you prefer to speak or listen?

how to improve my decisions?

Quality of your decisions decides the quality of your Life Every moment, we are exercising a choice and taking a decision. How so? Right now, you chose to read this and to keep reading it (Good decision!) And through the day and night, you will make a series of small and big decisions which will… Continue reading how to improve my decisions?

why adversity is good

If only my life did not have this setback in Studies Sports Job Business Relationships Money I would have been better off And these events make us feel “broken” or incompletewe feel if those events had not happened, we would have been more or got more and now we are getting less or deprived And… Continue reading why adversity is good

do you want to change? do this

Have you ever tried changing a habit? How did that work out? Do you want to change or improve your studies/ job/career/ business/ relationship or life? Here’s a 13 step plan to frustration “What? Frustration? Why” How many times have we read a 5 step or 9 point checklist or 1001 tips to do so… Continue reading do you want to change? do this

I am not interested in you

Go about life with the humility that you never know who you might meet and what (or who) they might know Josh Wolfe What do you ask, when you meet a new person? At one level, we look at people as containers of interest or money either they need to be “interesting” or have interests… Continue reading I am not interested in you