what happens when you desire something?

Thanos: I am inevitable⁣Yeah, how did that turn out for ya?⁣ What happens when you desire something? You visualize it, ⁣maybe make some sounds⁣and you feel somewhere it is inevitable⁣It’s going to happen⁣ Whether you want a new toy ⁣(cars, phones, infinity stones)⁣ or a start a new project ⁣(innovation, fad diet, new religion)⁣ ⁣or… Continue reading what happens when you desire something?

Don’t know how to start?

Try This⁣ How can I try things and ⁣ do something small enough, ⁣ but that could have a big impact, ⁣ that is easily solvable if it doesn’t work?⁣ Chip Conley on the Tim ferriss show As a child, ⁣when something did not work out, ⁣you tried another approach and ⁣another till it worked,… Continue reading Don’t know how to start?

Should you become emotionless?

I am sad, I am angry⁣I am experiencing sadness and anger⁣Anger and sadness are passing through me⁣⁣What is the difference between these statements?⁣Do they matter?⁣⁣We live inside a box called Identity⁣⁣When we experience anger, we quickly say “I am angry”⁣⁣Now what was initially ⁣an emotion or feeling ⁣has become an identity. ⁣⁣It is now powered… Continue reading Should you become emotionless?

Are your conversations building or dismantling relationships?⁣

Let’s have a conversation.⁣I will speak and you will listen⁣⁣“That’s called a monologue, not conversation”⁣⁣Whatever! I will speak and you will listen intently⁣and you will agree with whatever I say and not disagree⁣else I will unfriend you⁣⁣“That’s a transaction, not conversation”⁣⁣Don’t throw Pop psychology at me⁣I will speak for a long time⁣and then you will like it… Continue reading Are your conversations building or dismantling relationships?⁣

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What are your dreams for yourself?

A better future or a specific goal?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀I have always been accused of living in a “dream world”that the world is very different from what I live in my worldthat I am not opportunisticthat I am not realistic⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀Yup, that’s all me!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀I live in a dream worldbecause I believein the human potentialbecause I believe inthe nature of… Continue reading What are your dreams for yourself?

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Do you want to reduce drama in your life?

“I love Drama especially ⁣in fights”⁣No one says this⁣And yet, most participate⁣⁣Amongst people we know⁣There is always someone we say is a Drama Queen⁣⁣Reality we all have the capability and inclination to bring “drama” into our relationships⁣⁣Remember all the times ⁣you had a tough conversation ⁣which either resulted in ⁣yelling, shouting and hurling insults or… Continue reading Do you want to reduce drama in your life?

You lost your motivation.⁣ Now what?⁣

All my life I worked hard, ⁣made sacrifices, ⁣burnt the midnight oil, ⁣lost my hair and my social life ⁣in pursuit of only one goal:⁣To eat a tub of tender coconut ice cream⁣⁣Here I am staring into the tub, ⁣staring into the emptiness of the tub as the last spoon is gone⁣⁣Now what?⁣⁣I see only… Continue reading You lost your motivation.⁣ Now what?⁣

You had a fight, now What?⁣

Who’s to Blame?⁣⁣NO ONE⁣⁣In a relationship, ⁣whether business or romanticIt’s natural to feel angry or sad or ⁣a mix of both⁣⁣After all, if you really care ⁣for the person and/or ⁣the relationship, ⁣you will want happy, ⁣productive, meaningful,⁣fulfilling interactions⁣When a fight happens, ⁣it soon becomes “the” fight⁣⁣We want to ascribe blame and ⁣cause to the… Continue reading You had a fight, now What?⁣

Are you feeling desperate and alone?

You are not alone!⁣⁣If you are feeling desperate, anxious or ⁣plain fearful of what’s going to ⁣happen in the future to you, ⁣then you are not alone⁣⁣If things are not happening ⁣the way you want and whatever ⁣you have built is crumbling apart, ⁣then you are not alone⁣⁣If you had planned for things ⁣to happen… Continue reading Are you feeling desperate and alone?