I am sad, I am angryI am experiencing sadness and angerAnger and sadness are passing through meWhat is the difference between these statements?Do they matter?We live inside a box called IdentityWhen we experience anger, we quickly say “I am angry”Now what was initially an emotion or feeling has become an identity. It is now powered… Continue reading Should you become emotionless?
Tag: self development
Do you prefer to speak or listen?
“Sorry, what was the question?” Given a chance, we would rather start a monologue than.. “That’s not me, I prefer to listen it’s just I know what you are going to say nextThat I don’t listen but I do. I was right, wasn’t I?” You are right.Instead of listening to others perspective, we have already… Continue reading Do you prefer to speak or listen?
how to improve my decisions?
Quality of your decisions decides the quality of your Life Every moment, we are exercising a choice and taking a decision. How so? Right now, you chose to read this and to keep reading it (Good decision!) And through the day and night, you will make a series of small and big decisions which will… Continue reading how to improve my decisions?
why writing is important
In school, did you love or hate English language classes? I hated grammar classes. I still don’t get the hang of it and I am pretty sure, my English teacher would have spotted ten mistakes within these few lines. I am glad the past participle is in the past and while my future might still… Continue reading why writing is important
Are you a manufacturer or a Sculptor?
How do you approach work or a task? A manufacturer has an end goal in mind. She knows her journey from Point A to Point B and all the steps in between. She gathers and organizes men, material and money to go from Point A to Point B. Her direction and output both are clear… Continue reading Are you a manufacturer or a Sculptor?
Ask Why 5 times
What is a common question which children ask? WHY Why do the stars twinkle? Why I can’t eat pastries in the night? Why do I need to eat vegetables every day? Why should I eat strawberry ice cream when I like tender coconut ice cream? WHY so? Because they are curious about how things work… Continue reading Ask Why 5 times
slope of learning curve
Have you ever walked uphill? The first few steps are a struggle as the body and the breathing adjusts to the climb, after some time, if you are not seeing the latest episode of GOT or having a mindless conversation on your cell phone, then you become aware of the rhythm of the climb and… Continue reading slope of learning curve
why adversity is good
If only my life did not have this setback in Studies Sports Job Business Relationships Money I would have been better off And these events make us feel “broken” or incompletewe feel if those events had not happened, we would have been more or got more and now we are getting less or deprived And… Continue reading why adversity is good
do you want to change? do this
Have you ever tried changing a habit? How did that work out? Do you want to change or improve your studies/ job/career/ business/ relationship or life? Here’s a 13 step plan to frustration “What? Frustration? Why” How many times have we read a 5 step or 9 point checklist or 1001 tips to do so… Continue reading do you want to change? do this
I am not interested in you
Go about life with the humility that you never know who you might meet and what (or who) they might know Josh Wolfe What do you ask, when you meet a new person? At one level, we look at people as containers of interest or money either they need to be “interesting” or have interests… Continue reading I am not interested in you