Have you heard this before? We are the average of the five people who surround us. Who surrounds you? What is the impact they have on you? I heard this term “Learning by Osmosis” Osmosis means the process of gradual or unconscious assimilation of ideas, knowledge Without knowing, you are transferring ideas to and from… Continue reading Learning by Osmosis
Tag: self development
If I fail, does it make me a failure
I failed at the exam and I felt like a total failure. It was raining heavily and for a moment, I felt like throwing the answer paper into the rains. I felt like a total failure Fearing the worst, I went home only to find my problem reframed. Carol Dweck (Growth Mindset) says Those with… Continue reading If I fail, does it make me a failure
how to be successful?
Are you fed up of reading and listening about success hacks? There are just too many posts (1 millions tips for this, ultimate guide of 1 gazillion tricks) and videos on how to be successful. And the reality is this evan carmichael said “Success is Habits” Success is not a Pole Vault or a number… Continue reading how to be successful?
How do I motivate myself?
What do you get motivated by? Results, Goals, Checklist, Money, Title, Position? And what happens when you get them? Whats next? Is it a summit to climb or a bottomless pit of desires which only sinks like a quicksand? Daniel Pink in his seminal book Drive, highlighted the importance of Intrinsic Motivation. What’s that? Intrinsic… Continue reading How do I motivate myself?
how to improve your future
Do you want to know what you did in your past? Are you interested in knowing the consequences of your past actions? YES? Simple: look at your physical, mental, emotional state today Your past actions have left their imprints on you through habits and consequences You never really need to know why you did something… Continue reading how to improve your future
Do you feel that you have no choice?
Do you feel as if the remote control of your life is someone else’s hands? Do you feel that you have no choice? Do these thoughts make you feel powerful? Off course not! Then don’t think those thoughts “Oh, it’s easy for you to say it. You don’t know my situation. I really don’t have… Continue reading Do you feel that you have no choice?
Are you a Craftsman or Manufacturer?
What are you manufacturing today? “I don’t manufacture” you may say but you do. If you are worried about input (how much effort/time/money I am putting in) vs output (Is this really worth it? Why am I working? What am I getting out of it?) then you are a manufacturer I am all for productivity… Continue reading Are you a Craftsman or Manufacturer?
How are you making Choices?
How are you navigating through the avalanche of information? Peter Drucker said “When the history of this generation will be written, what will be talked about is, the unprecedented change in the human condition” He added “People will have to learn to handle manage themselves but, Society is unprepared for this“
How do I stop judging
You are Wrong! You should be doing it this way. Why can’t you understand? This is not the way it should be done. When will you realize you are wrong? Would you like hearing the above? Every day, every moment? Off course not! Then, why do we have these voices in our head? “Voices? I… Continue reading How do I stop judging
How do I achieve my dreams my goals
Do you want to achieve the best and highest in life? Do you want sustainable growth in your life? Follow the +(plus) – (minus) = (equal) philosophy +/-/= is credited to Frank Shamrock, one of the best UFC champions, who had an amazing record of a four-time defending undefeated champion, before he retired and became… Continue reading How do I achieve my dreams my goals