People don’t know what they want because they’ve never asked the question, and the reason they’ve never asked the question is because they’re too busy chasing Kapil Gupta MD (author: A Master’s Secret Whispers: For Those Who Abhor the Noise and Seek The Truth About Life and Living) You may say “Off course, I know… Continue reading Do you know what you want?
What does Let Go mean practically?
“If I let go, what happens to ambition or progress or growth? Bad Advice!” When we say “Let Go”what are we asking to “let go”? Are we talking about attachments tomaterial items eg cars, houses, gadgets, wealthor relationships, goals, objectives, success? How can we let go of these itemsand be “successful” in life? If we… Continue reading What does Let Go mean practically?
Do you need validation?
“I don’t need anyone’s validation” umm, why are you on social media? We all have different forms ofseeking external validation from others For some, it is clothes, gadgets, carschildren’s education, houses, travelreligious or spiritual knowledge It takes many formsand it is hard-wired in usbecause we are social animals I heard this from Aubrey Marcus“It is… Continue reading Do you need validation?
What’s your relationship with your past?
What’s your relationship with past? It’s complicated! When you look back to your past what feelings arise within you? Do you feel nostalgic and happy?maybe your childhood memories come backfrom all the fun times with friendswith games or books or visiting places OR Are you filled with dread, fear and shameas you remember all the… Continue reading What’s your relationship with your past?
How Do I Measure a Good Life?
(rrrrrngggg goes off the alarm clock) how do you get up? Pick up the alarm clock and throw it across the room OR Stretch your arms and legs in all different directions and then with a jolt of fear, realize you are late and fall off the bed OR Wake up refreshed andexcited, looking forwardto… Continue reading How Do I Measure a Good Life?
create struggle in your day
“I love to struggle all my life. I feel uneasy if my day does not start with some kind of struggle” What would you say about such a person?“Idiot! Take some from me if you are feeling less. Ha!” “Create your own struggles in life(like an intense physical exercise)to minimize life’s daily, acute struggles” Joe… Continue reading create struggle in your day
How do I improve my skills or my business?
How do I improve my skills, my business, my education? How do I learn better? Make more mistakes“What? I will lose my term/ my job/ my clients if I did mistakes. Bad advice!” Here’s what Naval Ravikant, one of the most successful investors and a businessman has to say: It’s the number of iterations which… Continue reading How do I improve my skills or my business?
How do I get a job?
“I am desperately looking for a job. What should I do?” “What skills should I develop to get a job?”“What profession will pay me well?”“How do I make sure I stay in my job?” All these are well-meaning questionsbut they are all wrong ones to ask The answer to these questions end upin imitating what… Continue reading How do I get a job?
you can’t have what’s next unless
“You can’t have what’s next unless you are absolutely ok with what you have right now” Mike Posner on Rich Rolls podcast “Wait, ok with what I have? Are you nuts? What happens to goals, ambition and aspiration” you may say How do we know if the chase is correctwhen we don’t know where we… Continue reading you can’t have what’s next unless
Are you ready to waste time?
“I made 100 million in 1 minute.” Yeah right! Would be your reaction if someone tried selling you this story “I did 1000 push ups in 1 minute” No way! You would say Because we have an innate sense of how much is possible in a certain amount of time Then why do we have… Continue reading Are you ready to waste time?